It is not uncommon to have a relationship end and then you figure out you want ex boyfriend back? It doesn't matter if you broke up with him or he broke up with you, chances are that if you play your cards right, you can get your ex boyfriend back.
We all know of relationships that ended because of a stupid fight or misunderstanding. Have you ever had a relationship end after you both started fighting over something stupid like, leaving the lights on when you leave the house? While it does waste energy, in the scheme of your relationship, who cares? Basically the argument should have ended with the offending party agreeing to be more careful in the future but somehow, you find that your relationship has ended in the blink of an eye. This type of thing happens all the time and there is a good chance for you if you want ex boyfriend back.
First of all, do not desperately chase after your ex boyfriend because he will just run from you. At first, just leave him alone but don’t completely disappear. For example, if he calls you then you need to take his calls. However, don’t stay on the phone with him for hours on end. It needs to be a short call. Tell him you can only chat for a minute because you are busy but maybe offer to call him back later.
Why should you do this? If you really want ex boyfriend back, you need to demonstrate that you do have a life and it doesn’t revolve around him. Most men enjoy the chase and they run from a woman chasing them. So, give him the chance to “get you back”.
Secondly, how you act will impact how he reacts to you. For example, if you are playing so cool that you completely ignore him when you see him, he won't try to get you back because he will think you aren't interested at all. If you throw yourself into his arms sobbing, he is going to run. So, you want to be a little flirty around him and make eye contact just long enough to make him wonder what you are thinking. But don’t stare into his eyes for a long time at this stage because it will make him uncomfortable. Your goal is to create an air of mystery and let him know you are interested.
Third, watch your body language. You may be sitting there thinking you are doing a great job of acting flirty but kind of cool, you may actually seem like you are ready to jump him! If you really want to get ex boyfriend back, be careful about what your non verbal cues are saying. For example, don’t fidget around or swing your leg rapidly in a nervous manner. You want to sit up, make eye contact and lean towards him slightly which will tell him that you are interested but not a stalker.
If you really want ex boyfriend back, you have to take note of the things we have just discussed. You could have disastrous results if you make the common mistakes that many women make. For example, stalking him, texting or calling him non stop, acting jealous and / or letting your self go are all signs to him that he needs to run away from you. The goal here if you really want to get him back is to make him want to chase you. You need concrete, easy to follow steps that will ensure success if you really want ex boyfriend back.
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